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Category Archives: My Life
Remembering Pearl
I went to law school with a woman named Pearl. I didn’t know her well, even though she may have been in my small section. I honestly can’t remember. I didn’t pay much attention to Pearl because she was “old.” … Continue reading
I Am NOT Trayvon Martin
I’ve been thinking a lot about Trayvon Martin and the Zimmerman trial. Rolling the facts around in my head and searching for a different, more equitable outcome. No matter how I slice it, an innocent teen got shot because a … Continue reading
The Sweet Life
Apparently between my posts on inclusion, the one on stealth grief, the sixth and final installment of the insensitive autism comments, plus the post on how sometimes shit just happens, I have inadvertently given people the idea that I’m in … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Acceptance, Autism, Change, Divorce, Gratitude, Loss, Single Parent, Sorrow, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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A Battle of Wills
Lately it seems Katie and I have been locked in a battle of wills. For hours, or even days, our lives will run smoothly and I will congratulate myself that all our hard work and effort are finally paying off. … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, Parenting, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
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More Glitter in the Air: An Update
Many of you have asked for an update on the trio of posts I did in late May and early June: Glitter in the Air, I’m a Nonprofit Girl at Heart, and Change Happens in Threes. These were the posts … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life, News
Tagged Advocacy, Fear, Special Needs, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Sometimes Shit Just Happens
It’s summer, and if you are the parent of an autistic child that means you worry about drowning. Even without an autistic child, I’d probably fret about drowning. My aunt drowned as a toddler, and since then, drowning has been … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, Fear, Gratitude, Mikaela Lynch, Parenting, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
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Stealth Grief
I’ve been rather sad, on and off, the past several weeks—and not because summer school ended much too soon this year (as in, today). No, this was a reappearance of something I call “stealth grief.” This is how stealth grief … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Addiction, Adoption, Autism, Cory Monteith, Divorce, Grief, Infertility, Special Needs, Unplanned Life
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A Picture Is Worth a Thousand Words, Take 2
Two weeks ago I wrote about a photograph. It’s a standard class photo that shows a boy in a wheelchair seated off to the side, leaning over to get closer to his classmates. In a word, the photo says exclusion. … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, Commentary, My Life
Tagged Advocacy, Autism, Inclusion, Sensory Integration, Special Needs, Unplanned Life
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Comments That Drive Me Crazy #6
Sometimes people just don’t know what to say when they learn my daughter Katie has autism. This is the sixth and final installment of insensitive comments that people have said. You can find the first list here, the second one … Continue reading



Making a Fuss About Jenny McCarthy–For All the Wrong Reasons
As you may or may not know, Jenny McCarthy will be replacing Joy Behar on the daytime talk show “The View.” This doesn’t sound like big news to me, but the internet has been ablaze with folks screaming about how … Continue reading →