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Category Archives: My Life
The Story of a Name
Several people have asked how I arrived at Katie’s name. The short answer is I’ve always loved the name Katie, as well as Kate. You can do a lot with a name like Kathryn, and I like that versatility. I … Continue reading
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Tagged Adoption, Divorce, Infertility, Open Adoption, Single Parent, Unplanned Life
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Reflections on a Harvest Moon
Several weeks ago we had a string of beautiful nights with a harvest moon hanging low and ripe in the early evening sky. I’d take Katie to the park after dinner for a bout of high-intensity swinging to help regulate … Continue reading
Separation Anxiety–An Update
I will admit that when I first thought about starting a blog, my thinking was more along the lines of “I should write a blog” than “wow, I can’t wait to do this!” I knew I needed a blog to … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Anxiety, Autism, Change, Gratitude, Milestones, Parenting, Unplanned Life
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Structure’s Slippery Slope, Part 2
Every so often Katie manages to surprise the hell out of me. The past few weeks were one such time. Two weeks ago, I discussed how Katie’s in-home therapy team and I had decided to break up some areas of … Continue reading
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Tagged Anxiety, Autism, Expectations, Parenting, Rigidity, Transitions, Unplanned Life
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What It’s Like to Live with Autism
People ask me all the time what it’s like to live with an autistic child. Crazy, I tell them. It’s a lttle crazy. My child is like a Husky in human form. They always laugh. The truth is I was … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Autism, Family, Gratitude, Siblings, Spencer Timme, Unplanned Life
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Structure’s Slippery Slope
This summer, due to an electrical service upgrade, my house was without power on an intermittent basis. Sometimes it was off for only 30 minutes; sometimes most of the day. Sometimes the power company would send a letter telling us … Continue reading
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Tagged Anxiety, Autism, Parenting, Rigidity, Transitions, Unplanned Life
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A Decade of Change
Maybe it’s because I recently attended my high school reunion, but I’ve been thinking a lot about where I want to be next year when I turn 50. It seems impossible. How could I actually be 50? I find it … Continue reading
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Tagged Adoption, Change, Divorce, Milestones, Single Parent, Unplanned Life
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Update on Publication in Special Needs Anthology
Back in June I learned that one of my stories had been accepted for publication in a yet-to-be-named anthology for special needs moms. The anthology now has a name: Monday Coffee & Other Stories of Mothering Children with Special Needs. … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life, News, Publications
Tagged Autism, Memoir, Parenting, Special Needs, Speech Delay, Writing Life
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Separation Anxiety
Lately Katie has been struggling with what I can only call separation anxiety. This is a bit odd as she has always detached from me quite easily. Even at age three, when she transitioned into the autism program in my … Continue reading
What Happened to August?
Sometimes I find that as a special needs parent I focus so much on what needs to be done in the future, that I often lose track of how far we’ve come. I was given a little reminder this past … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Milestones, Progress, Single Parent, Special Needs, Summer School, Unplanned Life
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