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Happy 80th Birthday, Dad
Ten years ago, I wrote a poem for my dad’s 70th birthday, which was published in a local anthology produced by former Livermore resident Karen Hogan. Although we never talked about the poem, I think my dad liked it. The … Continue reading
Truth Equals Peace
Lately it seems every time I go to the shaman ceremony, I figure out another piece of the puzzle that is me. This time was no different. The shaman labeled her ceremony “Peace—the bridge between what has been and what … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Career, Change, Family, Peace, Practicality, Procrastination, Truth, Unplanned Life
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An Ode to Johnny
Last June I wrote several posts about death. (You can read them here: Death Comes in Threes (Or More), Staring Into the Abyss, and Saying Goodbye.) In short, a friend’s husband died of cancer as did a fellow autism mom. … Continue reading
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Tagged Addiction, Alcoholism, Death, Family, Grief, John P. Murdoch Jr, Letting Go, Loss, Pain, Suicide, TBI, Traumatic Brain Injury, Unplanned Life
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Katie Turns 13
I am now in possession of a teenager. Part of me has no idea how this happened, and the other part knows exactly how it happened. My daughter and I are thirteen years older than we were when we first … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Adoption, Autism, Family, Gratitude, Milestones, Parenting, Rockin' Jump, Single Parent, Teen, Unplanned Life, Via Services
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Dating … Again
I’m dating again. This isn’t a place I expected to find myself after my marriage to Michael 1.0 in 1994, but it comes with the territory following a divorce, thankfully I got help with this since I found everything about … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Authenticity, Autism, Dating, Divorce, Family, Love, Single Parent, Unplanned Life
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An Uncertain 2017
It’s been a grueling two months. First there was the election and it’s aftermath. An acquaintance called it similar to a pandemic: sudden, shocking, and widespread. It’s the best description I’ve heard so far, although I’d prefer an element of … Continue reading
A Question of Settling
In Summer 2015, when my brother Tom got engaged, I joked he was moving fast. His long-winded divorce had ended just two weeks earlier. “We’ve dated one-and-a-half years,” he said. “And this time, neither of us are settling.” At the … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Art, Authenticity, Autism, Dating, Discontent, Divorce, Family, Heart, Love, Marriage, Perfection, Remarriage, Settling, Unplanned Life
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A Life of Quiet Desperation
For years, my brother Tom lived a life of quiet desperation. I saw it and recognized it in myself, recognized what I had seen years earlier in my father’s father. I think Mom saw it too, must have at least … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Authenticity, Autism, Divorce, Family, Happiness, Marriage, Parenting, Quiet Desperation, Remarriage, Settling, Social skills, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
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Christmas Crafts, Part 3
Back by popular demand: my Christmas story, in three parts, which first appeared here in December 2011. It’s been updated a bit, but mostly it’s the same story that made readers laugh until they cried. Go on, read it again…. … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Change, Creativity, Department 56, Divorce, Family, Gratitude, Holidays, Letting Go, North Pole Village, Single Parent, Unplanned Life
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Christmas Crafts, Part 2
Back by popular demand: my Christmas story, in three parts, which first appeared here in December 2011. It’s been updated a bit, but mostly it’s the same story that made readers laugh until they cried. Go on, read it again…. … Continue reading
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Tagged Change, Creativity, Department 56, Divorce, Family, Grandpa Jack, Holidays, Letting Go, North Pole Village, Unplanned Life
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