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Tag Archives: Special Education
Playing Chicken
The school district and I are playing a high stakes (at least for my daughter) game of chicken. They want me to sign an Individualized Education Plan (IEP)—read annual contract—committing my daughter Katie to the generic, for-profit, non-public school (NPS) … Continue reading
Running Out of Time and Options
I am now in a place that I’d hoped at all cost to avoid. There is no available space in any of the five non-public schools (NPS) focused on autism spectrum disorder that I visited. Nothing. We have been waiting … Continue reading
Summer School Surprise
Summer school. What can I say about summer school? In a word: amazing. I’m serious. After three agonizing months of what can only be described as a horrible in-home “school” experience, summer school has blown my mind. Quite possibly, it … Continue reading
Our Introduction to Rapid Prompting Method
Remember when I said I needed to free my autistic daughter’s brain? (If you don’t, you can read that here. Don’t worry, we’ll wait.) Well, I think I’ve found the answer. Her name is Lenae Crandall and the technique is … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Gratitude, HEED, Lenae Crandall, Milestones, Parenting, Rapid Prompting Method, RPM, Single Parent, Soma RPM, Special Education, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
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Another Twist on Our Autism Journey
Back in February, when I was scrambling to set up an in-home school program, I was invited to an open house at The Friend Tree Autism Center in San Ramon, CA where I ran into fellow autism mom Annette Musso and … Continue reading
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Tagged Annette Musso, Autism, HALO, HEED, Lenae Crandall, Letterboard, Matteo Musso, Rapid Prompting Method, RPM, Soma Mukhopadhyay, Soma RPM, Special Education, The Friend Tree, Unplanned Life
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Saying Goodbye
Katie and I are on vacation this week, getting some much needed rest and relaxation on the Sonoma Coast. This place has never failed to provide both of us with much needed solace and sanctuary. I am grateful that we … Continue reading
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Tagged Adjusting Course, Autism, Behavioral Issues, Failure, Gratitude, Loss, Monica Martinez, Parenting, Single Parent, Special Education, Unplanned Life
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Just When I Thought It Couldn’t Get Worse, Part 5
The female investigator from Child Protective Services (CPS) surveyed the broken items around us and asked whether my daughter received behavioral support. “I had a great in-home team who had been with us for years, but I lost them in … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, Child Protective Services, CPS, MediCal, Parenting, Regional Center, Single Parent, Special Education, Unplanned Life
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Just When I Thought It Couldn’t Get Worse, Part 4
I didn’t have long to wait. The investigator from Child Protective Services (CPS) arrived the next morning. She refused to enter until I put the dog outside, then paused at the door while she took in my new decor. The … Continue reading
Just When I Thought It Couldn’t Get Worse, Part 3
Without Caroline, there could be no “school.” We’d been given an afternoon off. It was unexpected, but I wasn’t about to complain. Neither was Katie. Free of the usual afternoon chaos, I went to my office and jumped on a … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, Child Protective Services, Parenting, Shame, Single Parent, Special Education, Unplanned Life
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Just When I Thought It Couldn’t Get Worse, Part 2
After Katie broke the wooden office supply organizer, she pretty much lost it, throwing pieces of wood and handfuls of office supplies. Caroline handed Katie a garbage bag and instructed her to clean up the mess. I could tell that … Continue reading
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Tagged Anger, Autism, Behavioral Issues, Hand Over Hand, Special Education, Unplanned Life
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