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Tag Archives: Unplanned Life
Stealth Grief
I’ve been rather sad, on and off, the past several weeks—and not because summer school ended much too soon this year (as in, today). No, this was a reappearance of something I call “stealth grief.” This is how stealth grief … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Addiction, Adoption, Autism, Cory Monteith, Divorce, Grief, Infertility, Special Needs, Unplanned Life
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Four Lessons in Creativity
Welcome to another Tuesday with TED. Today we have Julie Burstein, the author of Spark: How Creativity Works, speaking on “Four Lessons in Creativity.” Remember, embrace your experiences, challenges, limitations, and losses to be more creative — in any profession. … Continue reading
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Tagged Art, Challenges, Creativity, Julie Burstein, Limitations, Loss, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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A Picture Is Worth a Thousand Words, Take 2
Two weeks ago I wrote about a photograph. It’s a standard class photo that shows a boy in a wheelchair seated off to the side, leaning over to get closer to his classmates. In a word, the photo says exclusion. … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, Commentary, My Life
Tagged Advocacy, Autism, Inclusion, Sensory Integration, Special Needs, Unplanned Life
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Building Your Creative Confidence
Welcome to another Tuesday with TED. Today we have David Kelley talking about “How To Build Your Creative Confidence.” Everyone, including all you so-called “non-creative” types, should watch this. So what do you think about the idea that everyone can … Continue reading
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Tagged Art, Creativity, David Kelley, Fear, Shame, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Comments That Drive Me Crazy #6
Sometimes people just don’t know what to say when they learn my daughter Katie has autism. This is the sixth and final installment of insensitive comments that people have said. You can find the first list here, the second one … Continue reading
Your Elusive Creative Genius
Welcome to another Tuesday with TED. This week we have Elizabeth Gilbert, the author of Committed and Eat, Pray, Love, as well as other fiction and nonfiction books, who speaks about “Your Elusive Creative Genius.” And guess what? She thinks all … Continue reading
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Tagged Art, Creativity, Elizabeth Gilbert, Expectations, Fear, Genius, Memoir, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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A Picture Is Worth a Thousand Words
Happy Independence Day! I’ve been thinking a lot about inclusion the past couple of weeks and the main reason has to do with a photo, a photo that isn’t of me, or my daughter Katie, or even of a child … Continue reading
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Tagged Advocacy, Autism, Inclusion, Special Needs, Unplanned Life
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Tuesdays with TED
I’m always surprised when people tell me that they’ve never heard of TED — Ideas Worth Spreading. But for whatever reason, many people have never heard of the organization that hosts a variety of conferences, speakers, and events. Maybe it’s my … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Art, Creativity, Limitations, Phil Hansen, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Thoughts on Inclusion
A friend with young children recently ranted a bit about how parents who don’t invite ALL the kindergarteners to their child’s birthday party are mean, crappy human beings. Now admittedly, I may have a different perspective than the average parent, … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Change, Exclusion, Family, Fear, Secrets, Unplanned Life
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Making a Fuss About Jenny McCarthy–For All the Wrong Reasons
As you may or may not know, Jenny McCarthy will be replacing Joy Behar on the daytime talk show “The View.” This doesn’t sound like big news to me, but the internet has been ablaze with folks screaming about how … Continue reading →