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Author Archives: Cynthia J. Patton
More Glitter in the Air: An Update
Many of you have asked for an update on the trio of posts I did in late May and early June: Glitter in the Air, I’m a Nonprofit Girl at Heart, and Change Happens in Threes. These were the posts … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life, News
Tagged Advocacy, Fear, Special Needs, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Taking Your Imagination Seriously
Welcome to another Tuesday with TED. This week we are listening to Janet Echelman on “Taking Imagination Seriously.” Janet found her true voice as an artist when her paints went missing. A transporting ten minutes of pure creativity. Do you … Continue reading
Posted in Creativity, Tuesdays with TED
Tagged Art, Change, Creativity, Janet Echelman, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Sometimes Shit Just Happens
It’s summer, and if you are the parent of an autistic child that means you worry about drowning. Even without an autistic child, I’d probably fret about drowning. My aunt drowned as a toddler, and since then, drowning has been … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, Fear, Gratitude, Mikaela Lynch, Parenting, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
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There Are No Mistakes With Creativity
Welcome to another Tuesday with TED. This week we have jazz musician Stefon Harris who explains why “There Are No Mistakes on the Bandstand.” This video includes some incredible jazz music, so sit back with the beverage of your choice … Continue reading
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Tagged Creativity, Mistakes, Music, Stefon Harris, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Stealth Grief
I’ve been rather sad, on and off, the past several weeks—and not because summer school ended much too soon this year (as in, today). No, this was a reappearance of something I call “stealth grief.” This is how stealth grief … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Addiction, Adoption, Autism, Cory Monteith, Divorce, Grief, Infertility, Special Needs, Unplanned Life
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Four Lessons in Creativity
Welcome to another Tuesday with TED. Today we have Julie Burstein, the author of Spark: How Creativity Works, speaking on “Four Lessons in Creativity.” Remember, embrace your experiences, challenges, limitations, and losses to be more creative — in any profession. … Continue reading
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Tagged Art, Challenges, Creativity, Julie Burstein, Limitations, Loss, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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A Picture Is Worth a Thousand Words, Take 2
Two weeks ago I wrote about a photograph. It’s a standard class photo that shows a boy in a wheelchair seated off to the side, leaning over to get closer to his classmates. In a word, the photo says exclusion. … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, Commentary, My Life
Tagged Advocacy, Autism, Inclusion, Sensory Integration, Special Needs, Unplanned Life
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Building Your Creative Confidence
Welcome to another Tuesday with TED. Today we have David Kelley talking about “How To Build Your Creative Confidence.” Everyone, including all you so-called “non-creative” types, should watch this. So what do you think about the idea that everyone can … Continue reading
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Tagged Art, Creativity, David Kelley, Fear, Shame, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Comments That Drive Me Crazy #6
Sometimes people just don’t know what to say when they learn my daughter Katie has autism. This is the sixth and final installment of insensitive comments that people have said. You can find the first list here, the second one … Continue reading



Making a Fuss About Jenny McCarthy–For All the Wrong Reasons
As you may or may not know, Jenny McCarthy will be replacing Joy Behar on the daytime talk show “The View.” This doesn’t sound like big news to me, but the internet has been ablaze with folks screaming about how … Continue reading →