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Tag Archives: Autism
What It’s Like to Live with Autism
People ask me all the time what it’s like to live with an autistic child. Crazy, I tell them. It’s a lttle crazy. My child is like a Husky in human form. They always laugh. The truth is I was … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Autism, Family, Gratitude, Siblings, Spencer Timme, Unplanned Life
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Structure’s Slippery Slope
This summer, due to an electrical service upgrade, my house was without power on an intermittent basis. Sometimes it was off for only 30 minutes; sometimes most of the day. Sometimes the power company would send a letter telling us … Continue reading
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Tagged Anxiety, Autism, Parenting, Rigidity, Transitions, Unplanned Life
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Update on Publication in Special Needs Anthology
Back in June I learned that one of my stories had been accepted for publication in a yet-to-be-named anthology for special needs moms. The anthology now has a name: Monday Coffee & Other Stories of Mothering Children with Special Needs. … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life, News, Publications
Tagged Autism, Memoir, Parenting, Special Needs, Speech Delay, Writing Life
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Separation Anxiety
Lately Katie has been struggling with what I can only call separation anxiety. This is a bit odd as she has always detached from me quite easily. Even at age three, when she transitioned into the autism program in my … Continue reading
What Happened to August?
Sometimes I find that as a special needs parent I focus so much on what needs to be done in the future, that I often lose track of how far we’ve come. I was given a little reminder this past … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Milestones, Progress, Single Parent, Special Needs, Summer School, Unplanned Life
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The Sweet Life
Apparently between my posts on inclusion, the one on stealth grief, the sixth and final installment of the insensitive autism comments, plus the post on how sometimes shit just happens, I have inadvertently given people the idea that I’m in … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Autism, Change, Divorce, Gratitude, Loss, Single Parent, Sorrow, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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A Battle of Wills
Lately it seems Katie and I have been locked in a battle of wills. For hours, or even days, our lives will run smoothly and I will congratulate myself that all our hard work and effort are finally paying off. … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, Parenting, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
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Sometimes Shit Just Happens
It’s summer, and if you are the parent of an autistic child that means you worry about drowning. Even without an autistic child, I’d probably fret about drowning. My aunt drowned as a toddler, and since then, drowning has been … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, Fear, Gratitude, Mikaela Lynch, Parenting, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
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Stealth Grief
I’ve been rather sad, on and off, the past several weeks—and not because summer school ended much too soon this year (as in, today). No, this was a reappearance of something I call “stealth grief.” This is how stealth grief … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Addiction, Adoption, Autism, Cory Monteith, Divorce, Grief, Infertility, Special Needs, Unplanned Life
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Making a Fuss About Jenny McCarthy–For All the Wrong Reasons
As you may or may not know, Jenny McCarthy will be replacing Joy Behar on the daytime talk show “The View.” This doesn’t sound like big news to me, but the internet has been ablaze with folks screaming about how … Continue reading →