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Tag Archives: Unplanned Life
A Little Risk Is Good
For almost three years I plugged away at online dating, with minimal success. To my mother’s surprise, I met a lot of forty-something men who were willing to go out with me. Despite my law degree (an apparent turn-off for … Continue reading
A Leap of Faith
I’ve been online dating—or perhaps what could be more accurately described as attempting to online date—for a couple of years now. When I began to tentatively consider dating, back in 2010, my biggest fear was that I would meet (and … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Addiction, Adoption, Catfish (the movie), Dating, Divorce, Faith, Gratitude, Loss, Mental Illness, Mood Disorders, Open Adoption, PTSD, Single Parent, Unplanned Life
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Story Published in Special Needs Anthology
Yesterday was the release party for the new anthology entitled, Monday Coffee and Other Stories of Mothering Children with Special Needs. It contains my story, “Waiting, Still Waiting, For Words.” InWords Press published the anthology which was the vision of … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life, News, Publications
Tagged Autism, Parenting, Special Needs, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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The Story of a Name
Several people have asked how I arrived at Katie’s name. The short answer is I’ve always loved the name Katie, as well as Kate. You can do a lot with a name like Kathryn, and I like that versatility. I … Continue reading
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Tagged Adoption, Divorce, Infertility, Open Adoption, Single Parent, Unplanned Life
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Reflections on a Harvest Moon
Several weeks ago we had a string of beautiful nights with a harvest moon hanging low and ripe in the early evening sky. I’d take Katie to the park after dinner for a bout of high-intensity swinging to help regulate … Continue reading
Separation Anxiety–An Update
I will admit that when I first thought about starting a blog, my thinking was more along the lines of “I should write a blog” than “wow, I can’t wait to do this!” I knew I needed a blog to … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Acceptance, Anxiety, Autism, Change, Gratitude, Milestones, Parenting, Unplanned Life
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What is Home?
Welcome to another Tuesday with TED. This week we have California-based writer Pico Iyer asking what is home? Increasing numbers of people worldwide are living in countries not considered their own. Iyer — who himself has three or four “origins” … Continue reading
Posted in Other Writers, Tuesdays with TED
Tagged Creativity, Home, Pico Iyer, Travel, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Structure’s Slippery Slope, Part 2
Every so often Katie manages to surprise the hell out of me. The past few weeks were one such time. Two weeks ago, I discussed how Katie’s in-home therapy team and I had decided to break up some areas of … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Anxiety, Autism, Expectations, Parenting, Rigidity, Transitions, Unplanned Life
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What It’s Like to Live with Autism
People ask me all the time what it’s like to live with an autistic child. Crazy, I tell them. It’s a lttle crazy. My child is like a Husky in human form. They always laugh. The truth is I was … Continue reading
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Tagged Acceptance, Autism, Family, Gratitude, Siblings, Spencer Timme, Unplanned Life
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A Painter, A Pendulum, and Parkinson’s
Welcome to another Tuesday with TED. This week we have artist Tom Shannon in his Manhattan studio talking with journalist John Hockenberry in “The Painter and the Pendulum.” This eye-opening conversation reveals how nature’s forces — and the onset of Parkinson’s … Continue reading
Posted in Creativity, Tuesdays with TED
Tagged Art, Creativity, Special Needs, Tom Shannon, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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