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Some Thoughts on Luck (And Other Stuff)
As Saint Patrick’s Day approaches, I’ve been thinking a lot about luck. Most people think it’s incredibly unlucky that after eight years of infertility, my ex and I adopted a baby girl who turned out to have autism spectrum disorder—a … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Acceptance, Adoption, Autism, Change, Diversity, Divorce, Expectations, Family, Gratitude, Infertility, Loss, Love, Luck, Parenting, Single Parent, St Patrick's Day, Unplanned Life
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It’s IEP Season, Part 1
My daughter Katie’s birthday was in January, so that means IEP (individualized education plan) season has begun. Like most special needs parents, I dread this time of year. As a single mom, it means a ton of meetings, paperwork, and … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Advocacy, Appropriate Goals, Autism, IEPs, Non-compliance, Placement, Single Parent, Special Education, Special Needs, Unplanned Life
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I’m Sorry If I Scare You
I recently read a post on Brevity’s blog that was titled, “I’m Sorry You Scare Me.” Brevity, for those of you that don’t know, is a literary journal that focuses on flash (very short) nonfiction. The article was a guest … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, Books, My Life, Other Writers
Tagged Acceptance, Adoption, Authenticity, Autism, Beloved, Brevity, Dating, Denial, Elizabeth Gaucher, Eowyn Ivey, Fear, I'm Sorry You Scare Me, Infertility, Loss, Open Adoption, Single Parent, The Snow Child, Toni Morrison, Unplanned Life
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Storm Clouds Overhead
I just finished reading Claire Bidwell Smith’s memoir, The Rules of Inheritance. I read it straight through in two days—a feat which rarely happens anymore in my hectic life. This is even more incredible because the book was not a … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life, Other Writers
Tagged Acceptance, Adoption, Autism, Claire Bidwell Smith, Gratitude, Grief, Infertility, Loss, Memoir, Single Parent, The Rules of Inheritance, Unplanned Life
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How Writing Resembles Dating
I’ve joked before that writing and dating have a lot in common. Both require a thick skin, an embracing of rejection as part of the process. For some reason I accepted this easily with respect to my writing. I send … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Acceptance, Autism, Dating, Expectations, Letting Go, Rejection, Relationships, Single Parent, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Sneaking Candy
I don’t know if this is something I should admit, but my daughter Katie is getting sneaky. Because she has autism and I don’t have any typically functioning children, I’m often unsure if Katie’s behavior is due to her diagnosis … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, Milestones, Parenting, Sensory Integration, Shoulds, Single Parent, Sneaky Child, Unplanned Life
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Tailgating at Stanford
As I mentioned last week, I attended a football game at Stanford University. Michael 2.0 offered me tickets to the Stanford versus U.C. Davis game and I thought it would be fun, even though I knew in all likelihood, Davis … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Autism, Daddy, Dating, Single Parent, Speech Delay, Stanford, Tailgate Party, U.C. Davis, Unplanned Life
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Cynthia’s Yearlong 50th Birthday Bash–August Update
As I described back in April (you can read the post here), I’m celebrating my 50th birthday with a year of activities, challenges, and FUN designed to honor this milestone. I’m calling it Cynthia’s Yearlong 50th Birthday Bash, and so … Continue reading
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Tagged 50th Birthday, Birthdays, Memoir, New Things, Single Parent, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Our iPad Adventure Continues
Last Christmas I bought my daughter an iPad and if I was to sum up our experience to date it would be this: I don’t know how we lived without it. We both love the thing! Katie immediately began using … Continue reading
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Tagged Apple, Autism, iPad, Milestones, Sensory Integration, Shrek, Shrek 2, Single Parent, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
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A Boy Named Jared
Another thing that happened during my blog absence was Jared. No, he’s not a new boyfriend. Jared is an 18-year-old who is the son of Michael 2.0’s best friend’s fiancé, Laura. When Michael 2.0 went to Boston in December 2013, … Continue reading


