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Tag Archives: Behavioral Issues
Just When I Thought It Couldn’t Get Worse, Part 3
Without Caroline, there could be no “school.” We’d been given an afternoon off. It was unexpected, but I wasn’t about to complain. Neither was Katie. Free of the usual afternoon chaos, I went to my office and jumped on a … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, Child Protective Services, Parenting, Shame, Single Parent, Special Education, Unplanned Life
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Just When I Thought It Couldn’t Get Worse, Part 2
After Katie broke the wooden office supply organizer, she pretty much lost it, throwing pieces of wood and handfuls of office supplies. Caroline handed Katie a garbage bag and instructed her to clean up the mess. I could tell that … Continue reading
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Tagged Anger, Autism, Behavioral Issues, Hand Over Hand, Special Education, Unplanned Life
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Just When I Thought It Couldn’t Get Worse, Part 1
My daughter Katie’s truce with Caroline was short-lived. Just a few days after spring break, we began having tantrums and random acts of property destruction that quickly escalated. Then came the fateful day that, for me (and I suspect Caroline), … Continue reading
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Tagged Anger, Autism, Behavioral Issues, Ignoring the Behavior, Instructional Control, Special Education, Unplanned Life
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The Light At the End of the Tunnel?
My daughter and I had a peaceful spring break. I did what I could to keep her on schedule, to not let her spend much of the day in her pajamas, lounging with the iPad. Caroline and I were both … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, In-home Program, In-Home Schooling, Sensory Integration, Unplanned Life
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The Dark Before Dawn
I hate it when I’m right. At least about stuff like this. My daughter is in full out behavioral free fall. Every negative thing she has ever done is being resurrected before my eyes, and I’m powerless to stop it … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, In-home Program, In-Home Schooling, Sensory Integration, Transitions, Unplanned Life
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More IEP Woes
My daughter Katie has once again been kicked out of school, from a special day class no less, in our oh-so-wonderful district. Apparently autism is too mysterious and complicated for them to handle. Or something like that. This time around … Continue reading
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Tagged Advocacy, Autism, Behavioral Issues, FAPE, IEPs, Special Education, Suspension, Unplanned Life
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IEP Woes
It’s January, so that means it’s IEP month. (IEPs are individualized education plans for children with special needs.) Actually, this time around, the IEP madness started in December 2015. It’s a triennial year, so my daughter was subjected to lots … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, IEPs, Sensory Integration, Special Education, Suspension, Unplanned Life
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The Perils of Puberty
I can’t ignore it any longer. My eleven-year-old daughter Katie has entered puberty. My sweet, helpful little girl has been replaced with a crabby, mercurial pre-teen who litters the floor with discarded possessions, eats nonstop, snaps at me, argues about … Continue reading
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Tagged Autism, Autism A to Z, Behavioral Issues, Change, Parenting, Puberty, Sensory Integration, Special Needs, Transitions, Unplanned Life
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Hello Middle School–An Update
My daughter Katie has been in middle school a little over a week. I am happy to report that despite my initial fears, things appear to be working out. She had a great first day. A great first week, in … Continue reading
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Tagged Advocacy, Annie Sullivan, Anxiety, Autism, Behavioral Issues, Change, Expectations, Fear, Gratitude, Middle School, Social skills, Special Education, Speech Delay, Transitions, Unplanned Life
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A Slippery Legal Slope
A California lawsuit is working its way through the Santa Clara County court system that left me pretty much speechless when I learned of it. Two families are suing a third, claiming their autistic son is a public nuisance. At … Continue reading →