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Category Archives: My Life
An Unexpected Detour
Back in November 2014, I launched my second push to complete the third draft of my memoir. My goal was to edit the first 100 pages and rewrite the second 100 pages. By the end of the year I planned … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, Creativity, My Life
Tagged 50th Birthday, Autism, Connie Post, Creativity, Detours, Expectations, Finishing Line Press, Goals, Memoir, Poetry, Thumb, Thumb Infection, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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Thank You, I’m Fine
It’s ironic that of all the disabilities my daughter could have had, Katie was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder. Kids on the spectrum have trouble identifying and labeling their emotions. But sadly, so do I. No, I’m not on the … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Autism, Emotional Honesty, Emotions, Feelings, Parenting, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
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Some Thoughts on Luck (And Other Stuff)
As Saint Patrick’s Day approaches, I’ve been thinking a lot about luck. Most people think it’s incredibly unlucky that after eight years of infertility, my ex and I adopted a baby girl who turned out to have autism spectrum disorder—a … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Acceptance, Adoption, Autism, Change, Diversity, Divorce, Expectations, Family, Gratitude, Infertility, Loss, Love, Luck, Parenting, Single Parent, St Patrick's Day, Unplanned Life
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It’s IEP Season, Part 1
My daughter Katie’s birthday was in January, so that means IEP (individualized education plan) season has begun. Like most special needs parents, I dread this time of year. As a single mom, it means a ton of meetings, paperwork, and … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Advocacy, Appropriate Goals, Autism, IEPs, Non-compliance, Placement, Single Parent, Special Education, Special Needs, Unplanned Life
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I’m Sorry If I Scare You
I recently read a post on Brevity’s blog that was titled, “I’m Sorry You Scare Me.” Brevity, for those of you that don’t know, is a literary journal that focuses on flash (very short) nonfiction. The article was a guest … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, Books, My Life, Other Writers
Tagged Acceptance, Adoption, Authenticity, Autism, Beloved, Brevity, Dating, Denial, Elizabeth Gaucher, Eowyn Ivey, Fear, I'm Sorry You Scare Me, Infertility, Loss, Open Adoption, Single Parent, The Snow Child, Toni Morrison, Unplanned Life
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Cynthia’s Yearlong 50th Birthday Bash–January/February Update
As I described back in April 2014 (you can read the post here), I’m celebrating my 50th birthday with a year of activities, challenges, and FUN designed to honor this milestone. I’m calling it Cynthia’s Yearlong 50th Birthday Bash, and … Continue reading
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Tagged 50th Birthday, Birthdays, Dating, Memoir, Self-Care, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
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The Importance of a Thumb
I haven’t been here for over a month because back in December 2014, I managed to get a nasty infection in my right thumb. How? I’m not sure. Was it the crab I cracked (and scratched myself with)? Was it … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Acceptance, Anger, Autism, Blame, Letting Go, Thumb, Unplanned Life
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Happy New Year
Katie and I wish you and yours a wonderful, relaxing holiday season filled with joy, peace, and love and an amazing, abundant 2015. An Unplanned Life will return next week.
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Holiday Greetings
Katie and I wish you and yours a wonderful, relaxing holiday season filled with joy, peace, and love. An Unplanned Life will return in January 2015.
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