Sign Up For My Newsletter
NOW AVAILABLE
Want One of My Books? Shop Cynthia’s Bookstore!
Let’s Be Friends!
What I Write About:
50th Birthday Acceptance Across An Aqueous Moon: Travels in Autism Adoption Advocacy Anger Anxiety Art Authenticity Autism Behavioral Issues Change Creativity Dating Divorce Expectations Family Fear Finishing Line Press Gratitude Holidays IEPs Letting Go Memoir Milestones Open Mind School Parenting Poet Laureate Poetry Rapid Prompting Method RPM Sensory Integration Shame Single Parent Social skills Soma RPM Special Education Special Needs Speech Delay Story The Blank Canvas Blog Hop Transitions Truth Unplanned Life Writing Life
Author Archives: Cynthia J. Patton
Comments That Drive Me Crazy #4
People can say some incredibly stupid things when confronted with autism. This is the fourth installment of insensitive comments that people have made regarding my daughter’s autism and/or my parenting skills. You can find the first list here, the second one … Continue reading
Meet My Gremlin
My friend, Amy Christensen, is a certified life coach with a passion for adventure and helping women discover and tap into their own adventurous spirits. Based in Boulder, Colorado, her company Expand Outdoors focuses on helping women get outside literally and metaphorically: … Continue reading
The Next Big Thing
A few weeks ago, I was tagged in The Next Big Thing by my friend and fellow writer, Jennifer Simpson. For those of you who want to know more about my memoir, here’s your chance. What is the working title of … Continue reading
Posted in My Life
Tagged Adoption, Autism, Family, Infertility, Memoir, Open Adoption, Single Parent, Unplanned Life, Writing Life
Leave a comment
It’s Called a Spectrum For a Reason
A few months ago I met a fellow autism mom through social networking. We shared a poop story (don’t ask; it’s an autism thing) and had a good laugh. I immediately liked her. The following week we both posted about … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Acceptance, Anger, Autism, Fear, Guilt, Shame, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
Leave a comment
Sometimes the Truth is Stranger Than Fiction: An Update
My daughter Katie has been in her new placement in the Pleasanton School District for nearly three months. By any measurement, the transfer has been a success, thanks to the incredible Ms. Nav, Katie’s awesome aide Sharon, and the rest … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Advocacy, Autism, Behavioral Issues, Transitions, Unplanned Life
4 Comments
Fun at the Hardware Store
I wonder at times how my assumptions and fears hold Katie back. I say this because every time a situation or a therapist has challenged me to increase the demands on Katie, she has sailed past my expectations without a … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Autism, Behavioral Issues, Expectations, Family, Fear, Generalization, Milestones, Sensory Integration, Single Parent, Unplanned Life
3 Comments
Story Published in The Mom Egg
Happy Birthday to me! Happy Birthday to me! It must be my birthday month because I have a second publication in April. This one is in a literary journal called The Mom Egg. As you might have guessed from the … Continue reading
Comments That Drive Me Crazy #3
People can say some incredibly stupid things when confronted with autism. This is the third installment of insensitive comments that people have said regarding my daughter’s autism. You can find the first list here and the second one here. Enjoy! She’s not really … Continue reading
Pick Ups At the Dog Park
Last month Mom told me that my brother might be getting a dog. I asked why. My brother is in the middle of a divorce and lives in a rental house. A dog seemed like the last thing he needed. … Continue reading
Posted in Autism, My Life
Tagged Autism, Dating, Divorce, Single Parent, Speech Delay, Unplanned Life
3 Comments
What I Learned From National Day of Unplugging
A month or two ago, I read an article in Sunset Magazine about the concept of unplugging. It sounded dreamy and positively blissful. I mean, who wouldn’t want a long, tranquil day free from the constant chime of the phone and endless … Continue reading


